Why most men turn nasty with divorce..

Why do most men turn into a nasty ogre with a breakup or divorce whether or not they are doing the dumping or being dumped? It is worst in the second case. First they go through a denial and try too hard but when the women refuse to budge, they turn horrible. Women often are horrified when the men they though tthey knew well shows a totally (unusual) vengeful side that blames, accuses and is determined to hurt. There is an interesting psychology behind this.

According to Dr. James Dobson, the noted psychologist who has a newspaper column and television commentary, many husbands (men) do this when they decide they want a divorce and faced with one. Dr. Dobson says that when one person gets tired of a marriage and its responsibilities and breaks up the marriage, the other spouse tends to take on the guilt for the end of the marriage. In fact, the person who breaks up the marriage tends to shift the blame to the other person so that they won't feel so bad.