THEY enjoy successful careers, have good marriages and are caring parents. But a few times a month these couples swap partners with other married couples for sexual gratification. They are known as swingers.Most are professionals in their 30s, hoping to spice up their marriages and quench their sexual curiosity. They swear this "open" concept strengthens their marriages by suppressing any need to cheat.
But beneath this outwardly desirable lifestyle lies many problems. Many swingers learn that jealousy is not a force to be reckoned with, and most of these marriages end in divorce.Over the past year, more and more swinging groups have sprouted up. Their aim is to persuade other married couples to join this "secret" society.
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Here's the media industry version..
Ok.. dont mention the Najibs and Anwars..
All these aint news at all! The partner swapping was happening in US for so long i even saw a movie about it 20 years ago.. the casting couch is as old as the industry! So wtf?
So here is the question. Do we do away with the hypocrisy of 'moralities' that we humans are obviously incapable of keeping up to?
Let say everyone do as they please.. no guilt imposed.. no remorse .. (basic economic theory when supply goes down.. demand goes up... now if everyone was everywhere..) then would all this hang-ups and suppression about sex still dominate human mind? Would we cease obsessing so much about sex then and find something more to do with our existence?
What is obvious thought is the old system of society is failing....marriage institution... love, commitment, loyalty... it is all going out of fashion.
