Relationships, just how much can you compromise and when can you let go? There's a fluctuating line between that. Factors to consider. How deep u r into the relationship in the first place?
Married, dating, intimacy... the deeper it is the more difficult it is to decide.And does the good stuff outlay the ones bugging you? And is the bad stuff overriding the good ones each time? Is the problem neverending? Is it going to remain a problem forever that is drastically affecting the future an the quality of the relationship?
Next set of questions:
Does the person know he/she has the problem?
Is he doin anything about it?
If no, then its easier to decide. But nothing is easy in a relationship.
What if the poor guy has no clue at all?
That he cant see himself outside the box?
What if he was brought that way to think its the right way?
At the same time, there are other sides of him that are so endearing.mmm...
Then you look for some sign. Higher advice, help, watever. You think you see signs, then you think, you have to see more signs.
Then you keep ur fingers crossed hoping time and some good karma comes up with a solution for you. And it starts from there again... and you where its going to end.
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